40: Dating Advice: How Can I Stop Comparing Myself?

 

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Dating Advice: How Can I Stop Comparing Myself?

It’s our second (official) community episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast!

This episode is dedicated to you, your questions, your icks and your dating stories. This month, you asked:

  • I’m dating a really lovely guy and I’m scared it’s all going to go wrong - how do I prevent self sabotage and cope with this fear?

  • My ex wanting to sleep with other people knocked my confidence: how do I stop comparing myself to other women and feel confident in myself again?

  • How can I deal with feelings of jealousy about my ex and new women he may be with?


PLUS: I received an awesome message about our last community episode (When’s the best time to discuss a fetish with someone you’re dating?). If you’ve got a fetish or kink that you’re worried people will judge you for, you need to listen to this….

To be included in next month’s community episode, contribute here.

The Dating Debrief

I’m running a brand new FREE masterclass called The Dating Debrief where I’ll be revealing how I went from anxious, codependent and unable to speak up in relationships to confidently dating, able to set solid boundaries, and having the time of my (love) life. 

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Episodes Mentioned: 

Dating Advice: When's The Best Time to Discuss a Fetish With Someone You're Dating?

How to Quit Obsessing Over Why He Hasn’t Messaged You

How to Feel Confident Having Sex With Someone New

How to Manifest ‘The One’: Do This Before Dating

Your Dream Relationship Exists: Here’s How to Believe In It

Additional Resources:

Watch the video on the (Dis)Comfort Zone Come Down

What Does Self Love Mean And How To Love Yourself More

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