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51: If I Wanted to Fall in Love, This is What I'd Do

This video was shared on my YouTube channel in February and I thought it'd be something you'd benefit from listening to too so here ya go....

After 4 years of being single, I'm ready to fall in love again. In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, I talk about my commitment to intentional dating with the goal of finding a meaningful relationship and I reveal the key steps I'm taking, the challenges I'm facing and the transformative lessons I'm learning on the path to love.

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50: An Alternative Perspective On The 5 Love Languages

“Love Languages are a load of rubbish!” was his response when I asked him to take the 5 Love Languages quiz, which led to an in depth discussion and a new, alternative perspective on Gary Chapman’s Love Languages.

In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, I dive deep into the concept of Love Languages, reflecting on personal experiences and their impact on relationships. Exploring my own journey with the Love Languages, I highlight how recognising and communicating our preferred languages can deepen connections with the people we’re dating. I also offer the alternative perspective that was given to me recently and how this point of view has made me think of the Love Languages differently.

Do I now agree it’s a load of bollocks? You’ll have to listen to find out….

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49: MAFS S11: Lessons You Need To Improve Your New Relationship

Who knew that your Married At First Sight Australia addiction could improve your new relationship?

Whether you’re actively dating and looking for ‘The One’ or you’ve just started seeing someone new (it’s ok, you don’t have to call it a relationship yet), I’m sharing the important lessons we can learn from the remaining couples in Season 11 of Married At First Sight Australia so you can avoid the mistakes they’ve made.

Alongside the relationship lessons we can learn, I’ll also be sharing my honest opinion on each of the couples including the groom that fills me with unmeasurable levels of rage and how one of my favourite couples has the biggest lesson for us all, even if you’ve been in your relationship for a long time.

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48: Dating Advice: He Asked Me To Make A Video With Him, What Should I Do?

It’s that time of the month again….Community Episode!

This episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast is all about YOU. We’ve got dating stories, bad responses to your dating profile prompts and some particularly juicy questions including:

1. A guy I’m dating asked if he could film us having sex, am I overreacting? 2. I don’t get many matches on dating apps and it’s making me feel rejected, what can I do? 3. It’s been 5 days and he hasn’t asked me out on a second date, is he still interested? 4. All my friends are married so I have no one to talk to about dating, how can I stop feeling so lonely? 5. The guy I’m seeing told me he’s had sex with a man and I don’t know how to feel about it, should I end things with him?

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47: How to Be More Attractive to Men

Want to become more magnetic to the man of your dreams?

In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, we’re talking about how to be more attractive to men including the pep talk every woman needs, actionable steps to feel more attractive in your own skin and common things that can instantly put men off.

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46: Dating Apps: I’m Immediately Swiping Left If I See This

We’ve got a fun one today, friend!

Join me in this lighthearted episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast as I dive into the world of dating profiles, sharing my instant "swipe left" criteria. From nicknames to topless photos, I explore what repels me and why. Drawing from my personal experiences and observations, I shed light on common pitfalls in online dating profiles, offering humorous yet insightful commentary along the way.

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45: Dating Someone New? Expect This to Happen

I did not expect this to happen when I started dating someone new….And I’m not going to lie, some of the things that’ve been coming up since I started dating the new guy in January have come as a bit of a shock.

In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, we’re exploring the unexpected memories that’ve been bubbling to the surface since I’ve been dating someone new, the complexities of healing from past heartbreak, and I’m highlighting the importance of self-compassion and acceptance as you navigate feelings of guilt and sadness while embracing the joys of present experiences.

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44: You Need This to Survive Dating in Your 30s

Dating can be brutal, can't it? There are moments in dating where you're just like “what the fuck am I doing?”

There are moments where we question ourselves, we question our choices and we question whether it's even worth it. To survive the shitshow that dating can be, there’s one thing you need.

And in this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, I’ll be revealing exactly what that is.

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43: How to Stop Dating Losers: You Deserve More

It’s time to stop dating losers. It's time to stop dating dickheads. It’s time to stop dating people who are not worth your time, energy and effort.

In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, I tackle the issue of settling for less in relationships. I share why I’m refusing to accept the bare minimum in relationship and how to raise your relationship standards.

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42: The Guaranteed Way To Be Single Forever

I’ve noticed a trend in Facebook groups for women who are actively dating. This trend is super common and ridiculously easy to get sucked into. It’s also a pattern that’s guaranteed to keep you single forever. 

In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, I’m revealing the unhealthy dating mindset that you need to let go of and what you need to do instead to give yourself the opportunity of manifesting the dream relationship you’ve always deserved.

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41: Important Changes I Made To How I Date Now I'm In My 30s

Are you ready to leave the mistakes you made in your twenties behind and date with confidence in your thirties? Do you need guidance on what those mistakes *could* have been? Would you like to make changes to the way you’re dating so you can manifest your dream relationship?

In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, I delve into the significant changes I've experienced in dating as I transitioned from my twenties to my thirties.

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40: Dating Advice: How Can I Stop Comparing Myself?

It’s our second (official) community episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast! This episode is dedicated to you, your questions, your icks and your dating stories.

PLUS: I received an awesome message about our last community episode (When’s the best time to discuss a fetish with someone you’re dating?). If you’ve got a fetish or kink that you’re worried people will judge you for, you need to listen to this….

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39: How To Quit Obsessing Over Why He Hasn't Messaged

Have you ever been frozen in an anxious spiral, obsessing over why your latest match on Bumble hasn’t replied to your message yet? Or you’ve been on an amazing second, third, fourth date with someone but now they’re not as texty as they were?

This is the episode for you. 

In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, I tackle the common dating struggle of obsessing over unanswered messages and offer practical solutions to break free from this cycle. 

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38: Dating Advice: Is This Really a Red Flag?

Let’s talk about red flags in dating.

In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, I’m answering a number of questions about whether something is a red flag and you should run a mile or if you’re simply being oversensitive and you need to work on your self esteem.

(Spoiler alert: you’re not being sensitive).

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37: How To Be Confident In Yourself When You're Dating

You deserve your dream relationship. And in order to get that, you need to put yourself out there.

But putting yourself out there can feel pretty terrifying, can’t it?

In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, I'm sharing how to be confident in yourself when you’re dating so you can get that dream relationship you deserve.

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36: Psychological Tricks To Make A Man Fall In Love With You

A few weeks ago, I was having a little scroll on TikTok and a video popped up in my feed: Psychological Tricks to Make a Man Fall In Love With You.

I’ve got a few thoughts and feelings about this so in this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, I thought I’d share with you my own tips and tricks to make a man fall in love with you.

These are the greatest tools you’ll ever learn and will not only help you find love with someone else, but will also help you fall head over heels in love with yourself…

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35: How to Level Up In Love

Are you ready to level up in love? In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, I delve into the crucial aspects of levelling up in love, drawing from personal experiences and insights.

We explore the importance of building a deep connection with intuition and self, emphasising self-care to reduce anxiety in relationships. Abandoning yourself when starting to see someone new is a common pitfall and I share my journey of breaking free from this pattern. 

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34: Date Three Would've Happened If He Hadn't Said This

Ready for some pre-date stalking and a potentially awkward kiss? It’s another cringe-filled dating story!

In this episode of The Date With Confidence Podcast, I’m sharing all the gossip about the first two dates I went on with Tech Guy and why I chose not to see him again (despite agreeing to the third date initially).

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33: How To Feel Confident Having Sex With Someone New

After my last break up, I chose not to have sex for over four years. During that time, feelings of embarrassment and shame for going so long without came up and I was also faced with many new fears: what if no one found me attractive ever again? What if no one wanted to have sex with me? What if I’ve forgotten how to have sex and perform badly for someone new?

In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, I share the practical strategies I used to help me increase my sexual confidence again so that when the time came for me to jump into bed with someone new, not only would I feel ready for it, but I’d feel my most sexually empowered, most sexually confident self.

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32: Dating Advice: When's the Best Time to Discuss a Fetish With Someone You're Dating?

When’s the right time to discuss your kinks with someone you’re dating? Did she know who I was when she messaged me? And what should I do if my ex friend’s ex boyfriend swipes right on me?

This episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast is dedicated to you, your questions and your dating stories. I’m sharing my advice and also discussing why having a unique fetish is nothing to be ashamed of.

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