63: How to Use ChatGPT to NEVER Settle in a Relationship
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How to Use ChatGPT to NEVER Settle in a Relationship
The reason so many people (women especially) settle in average relationships with average men - and by average I mean not the type of person they actually want to be dating - is because they’re not crystal clear on their relationship vision.
But I’ve got just the solution for you…..a solution that means you’ll NEVER settle in a relationship with someone you’re not compatible with (or who doesn’t treat you how you deserve) again.
In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, I explore how to use ChatGPT to improve your dating life by asking a question that’ll turn your standards list into a full blown dream relationship vision.
From building an intentional wishlist of standards to staying open-minded yet discerning in dating, I discuss how having a future story can inspire hope and prevent you settling for less than you deserve. I also share my personalised future story (cringe moments and all!) and the value of visualising everyday moments in a relationship that feel authentic and fulfilling.
Here’s what we cover:
1. Using AI for Personal Growth: How tools like ChatGPT can help craft a detailed vision for your dream life and relationship
2. Defining Relationship Standards: The importance of creating and regularly revisiting a list of non-negotiables in a partner
3. The Power of Visualisation: How visualising small, meaningful moments can make your dream relationship feel more tangible
4. Balancing Clarity and Openness: Avoiding rigid expectations while ensuring you don’t settle for less than you deserve
5. Dating with Intention: Leveraging your relationship vision to assess dating profiles and make aligned choices
6. Everyday Intimacy Matters: Why the little moments, like dancing in the kitchen or stargazing, are essential in building a lasting connection
7. Self-Worth in Dating: Staying true to yourself and your vision while navigating modern dating challenges
This episode offers practical insights and inspiration to manifest the love you deserve, reminding you that clarity and self-awareness are the foundation of a fulfilling relationship.
The prompt I used in ChatGPT:
“Can you intertwine a fairytale, healthy, "Nobody Wants This" style relationship with a tall, handsome, intelligent and caring man please? Please be specific about the type of man I'll be with based on this wish list: [and then I added my standards in a list of bullet points] ”
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How to Manifest “The One”: Do This Before Dating
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