38: Dating Advice: Is This Really a Red Flag?
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Dating Advice: Is This Really A Red Flag?
Let’s talk about red flags in dating.
In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, I’m answering a number of questions about whether something is a red flag and you should run a mile or if you’re simply being oversensitive and you need to work on your self esteem.
(Spoiler alert: you’re not being sensitive).
Here are the questions I answer - is it a red flag if a man:
1. Refers to women in a derogatory way?
2. Unmatches you on a dating app immediately after getting your number?
3. Updates his dating profile after organising a fourth date with you?
4. Is on multiple dating apps?
5. Has been in multiple relationships but has never been in love?
6. Doesn’t have social media?
7. Mainly follows women on Instagram?
8. Takes a while for messages to be delivered on WhatsApp?
9. Speaks about his ex in a nasty way/is rude about his ex?
10. Lies about the number of people he’s slept with?
11. Stops replying at 7pm and tells me he’s fallen asleep?
12. Has slept with a lot of women (close to 100)?
13. Asks if I’m out on the pull when we’ve been seeing each other for a couple of months?
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