16: Sex On The Third Date?! Dating Rules You Need To Ditch Now
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Sex On The Third Date?! Dating Rules You Need To Ditch Now
Should you have sex on the third date?
Should the guy pay for everything on a first date?
Should you really be waiting for hours before responding to a message from them?
And, is it an absolute no no to talk about your exes on a first date?
In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, we're diving into the world of dating rules and why it's time to ditch them for good.
Here are the key topics covered:
1. The Pressure to Have Sex on a Third Date: Remember the old dating rule about having sex on the third date? Well, I say it's time to ditch that expectation. It's okay to take your time and build an emotional connection before anything physical.
2. Who Pays on a First Date: While it's great when your date picks up the check, let's not make it an expectation. I appreciate it for sure, but I'm down for equality and sometimes prefer to split the bill. It's about finding a balance that works for both parties.
3. Stop the Texting Mind Games: Why wait for hours to respond to a message? Let's be real, playing these games doesn't lead to healthy relationships.
4. Talking About Exes on a First Date: Contrary to the old advice, I find it healthy to discuss past relationships on a date. It helps you understand your potential partner's expectations and deal-breakers, making it easier to decide if you're compatible.
5. Authenticity is Key: Don't try to be your best self, try to be your true self. Being authentic on your dates is crucial. It allows both you and your date to form a genuine connection and know if you're compatible from the start.
So, let's ditch those outdated dating rules and embrace a more authentic and open approach to dating. Remember, it's about finding the right connection, not following a set of rigid rules.
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