23: Interview with My Grandad: Dating Advice from an 81 Year Old
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Interview with My Grandad: Dating Advice from an 81 Year Old
This is hands down my favourite episode I’ve ever recorded.
I have the most special guest on The Date with Confidence Podcast: my grandad.
In this episode, we delve into the charming story of how my grandparents met and why grandad believes their 57 year marriage has been so successful. Plus, he reveals to me what he really thought of my ex boyfriends and gives me dating advice I never expected.
Here's a peek at what we discussed:
1. Love At First Sight: Grandad shares the story of how he met my nan at work, highlighting a moment of love at first sight and the charming details of their courtship
2. Reflections on Longevity: Grandad reflects on his 57-year-long marriage, emphasising the significance of love, tolerance, and a willingness to give and take in making a relationship last.
3. Dating Criteria and Priorities: Grandad emphasises the importance of finding a partner who prioritises and cares for you and shares how he’s always put nan first.
4. Telling the Truth: I ask Grandad what he really thought about my ex boyfriend and he doesn’t hold back!
5. Traditional Dating vs. Modern Apps: Drawing a comparison between past and present, Grandad expresses scepticism about dating apps. He encourages face-to-face interactions, suggesting that personal connections are more genuine than online profiles.
6. Paying for Dates: Grandad gives his opinion on who should be paying the bill on the first date and how suggesting to split it could cause embarrassment on their part.
7. Relationship Progression: Reflecting on his own relationship with my nan, Grandad talks about the natural progression of their relationships and how they became a couple - did he ask her to become his girlfriend?
8. Final Words of Wisdom: The episode concludes with a reflection on a long and happy life, acknowledging the challenges of ageing but emphasising the fulfilment derived from family and meaningful connections.
This episode offers listeners a heartwarming glimpse into the enduring love story of my grandparents, coupled with timeless dating advice from a man with a wealth of life experience. It's not just an interview; it's a family legacy shared with you.
Links to episodes mentioned:
The Near Perfect Date That Became a Hilarious Nightmare
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