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22: He Wanted Me to Send Photos & Lied About His Age

Guess who's got a new dating story for you....

In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, I've got a brand new first date story about Rob*. Find out why my friends insisted I sack him off immediately and how I responded when he continued to ask me to send photos of myself. Plus, the shock reason he lied about his age and didn't tell me until we met.

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21: I Tried Bumble Speed Dating Twice: Here's What Happened

I decided to give Bumble Speed Dating a shot, not just once, but twice. I’d heard good things about it from a few people so thought I’d have a go myself. What’s the harm, eh?

In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, I’m sharing what happened during my experience and why I swiftly backed out the first time.

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20: I Know What I Deserve Now and This Is NOT It

A few weeks ago, I went for dinner with two of my besties and as we enjoyed our food, I revealed all about a new guy on the scene who would be taking me on a date 4 days later. They suggested I record a pre-date episode that I could reflect back on after this initial date. And that’s exactly what this episode was *supposed* to be. But something happened……

In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, we’re having a candid and empowering chat about setting boundaries and knowing your worth when it comes to dating. It’s not the episode I had planned but it’s packed full of powerful reminders we all need from time to time.

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19: This Simple Concept Will Help You Date With Confidence

Whether it's a first date, second, third, fourth date that fills you with anxiety. Or whether the idea of connecting with people on apps makes you feel sick. Or whether it's putting yourself out there for the first time if you've been single for a long time. Or you just want to enter a room feeling full of confidence instead of fear…

The concept I’m sharing with you in this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast is going to help you feel confident in every aspect of dating (and other areas of your life!).

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18: How to Cancel a Date with the ‘Nice One’

You’ve been on a lovely date with a lovely guy and had a lovely time. But however lovely it was, he’s just not doing it for you. The problem is, you’ve committed to another date. How can you cancel a date with the nice one, without coming across as a complete arsehole?

In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, I’m sharing the exact message I send to the lovely men who just aren’t for me. Learn the one thing you need to remember when rejecting someone and steal my script for the next time you need to cancel on someone.

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17: "Wanna Level Up to Bride?" Weird Comments I've Received on Hinge

Have you ever been told you “look saucy as a bowl of spaghetti”? Or been asked to dress up like a bridesmaid for a first date? Are you ever left confused about whether someone’s trying to make a joke or genuinely means the wild shit that’s coming out of their fingertips? Surely I can’t be the only one who receives weird af comments on their dating profile, can I?

In this lighthearted episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, I’m taking you behind the scenes of my Hinge profile and sharing some of the weirdest comments I've received on my photos.

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16: Sex On The Third Date?! Dating Rules You Need To Ditch Now

Should you have sex on the third date? Should the guy pay for everything on a first date? Should you really be waiting for hours before responding to a message from them? And, is it an absolute no no to talk about your exes on a first date?

In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, we're diving into the world of dating rules and why it's time to ditch them for good.

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15: How to Deal with Rejection When You’re Dating

 Let's talk about rejection. Rejection happens to all of us, no matter what stage of life we're in. Whilst rejection is a totally normal part of life, it doesn’t mean it doesn’t suck. It’s painful, it makes us question ourselves and can reopen our not enoughness wounds.

In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, I’m sharing how I deal with rejection when it comes to dating plus I’ll reveal the exact 7 day plan I followed after a recent rejection.

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14: Closure & New Beginnings: Am I Delusional?! Part 2

When something ends quicker than you expected, how do you handle it? What actions do you take to prevent these patterns repeating themselves? How do you release the trauma so it doesn’t impact you in the future?

In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast - a follow up to the "Am I Delusional?!" episode that was released two weeks ago - I’m giving you an insight into the coaching session I had after a recent dating experience came to an end quicker than I expected it to.

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13: The 'Near-Perfect' Date That Became a Hilarious Nightmare

Let me set the scene: it's a Thursday evening in London, and I'm gearing up for a first date with someone who isn’t my type but seems promising. I've had my fair share of dating adventures in the past four years of single life, but this one... well, let's just say it's one for the books.

In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, I’m sharing the comical and cringe-worthy story of a first-date experience I recently had. Get ready to cringe along with me as I reveal all the gory details of the hilarious nightmare that was a first date.

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12: Am I Actually Delusional?! The Rollercoaster Of Modern Dating

Am I actually delusional? Did I make this shit up? Am I just living on a whole different planet?!

These are just some of the questions I was left asking myself after a recent dating experience that ended as quickly as it started. It was the first time I’d caught the feels for someone since my breakup 4 years ago and it was an experience to say the least.

In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, I take you through a whirlwind of emotions as I recount the recent dating experience that left me questioning everything.

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11: "Do you swipe right if their mate's more attractive?!" (Dating Q&A)

Who should pay on a first date? How do you deal with rejection? And most importantly, do you swipe right if their mate’s more attractive?!

In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, I’m hosting the first ever dating Q&A and answering the questions you submitted via Instagram. I hope you enjoy hearing my answers as much as I enjoyed recording this!

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10: What It Really Means When You Get Ghosted

Getting ghosted can be a bewildering and disheartening experience, but before you let it shake your confidence, let's break down what's really happening behind those silent screens and unanswered messages.

In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, we dive into what it really means when you get ghosted by someone and the key thing you need to remember the next time it happens to you.

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09: How to Act & Feel Confident Before a First Date

You’ve matched with someone, had a bit of a chat back and forth, and they’ve asked you out on a date - yayyy! Whilst you’re excited at the prospect of meeting them face to face, there’s a part of you that feels anxious and worried about making a good first impression.

It’s completely normal to feel nervous before meeting someone for the first time and in this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, I’m sharing how to act and feel confident before a first date so you can leave the anxiety at home and focus on having fun with your latest match.

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08: Important Things I Tell Myself Before a First Date

Going on a first date can be both exciting and nerve-wracking. The anticipation, the butterflies, and the desire to make a great impression can lead to anxiety. However, the key to a successful first date lies in your mindset.

In this episode of The Date With Confidence podcast, I’m sharing valuable insights and practical tips for boosting your confidence before a first date including the important things I tell myself before I go on any date.

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07: Mindset Shifts You Need to Make Around Dating

Are you stuck in a dating rut, feeling like you're trudging through an endless cycle of disappointment and frustration? It's time for a change, and that change starts with your mindset.

In this episode of The Date With Confidence podcast, I’m exploring the importance of changing your mindset when it comes to dating so you can stop feeling like dating’s a chore and start to view it as something FUN.

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06: If I Wanted to Date Again After a Toxic Relationship, This Is What I’d Do

Healing is an ongoing process; it's not a quick fix or a magical transformation that happens overnight. It's a journey, a series of steps towards rediscovering your best self and finding the love you truly deserve.

In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, I’m sharing my personal journey of healing and growth after toxic relationships.

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05: Should I Really Delete Everything After a Breakup?

In 2012, I went through my first of two catastrophic breakups. To help me process the breakup, my friends thought it’d be a good idea to take my phone and delete all evidence of the relationship.

They deleted every message he'd sent. They deleted him off Facebook. And they deleted his number. But I couldn’t handle it. I was not ready to stop re-reading our conversations.

In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, I’m sharing my thoughts on the commonly asked question “Should I delete everything after my breakup?” and comparing my own healing process when everything was deleted just weeks after my first big breakup versus me steadily deleting things over a period of a few years after my second big breakup 7 years later.

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04: Were They Really Your Best Friend? 6 Signs Your Ex Wasn’t ‘The One’

I’ve been in 5 relationships since I was 17. One fizzled out after two years, one was destined to be temporary, one ended in a screaming match and me moving to another island, and two ended in catastrophic heartbreak.

After both of these breakups, I kept repeating the same thing to myself “But he was my best friend”. I felt like I’d lost more than just a lover and if you feel the same, you should listen to this.

In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast we’re exploring the question: were they really your best friend? I’m also sharing 6 signs your ex wasn’t ‘The One’. My hope for you is that after listening to this episode, you’ll feel stronger, more empowered and ready to move on from the one(s) who didn’t deserve you.

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03: How to Self Care When You’re Going Through a Break Up

A relationship ending can be one of the most difficult experiences to go through. It can be especially hard to practise self-care when you’re in the process of healing from a breakup.

However, it’s important to remember that taking care of yourself is one of the best things you can do to get yourself through the difficult time.

In this episode of The Date with Confidence Podcast, I’m sharing how to self care when you’re going through a breakup, including the three layers you need to work on and my go to self care activities when I’m struggling.

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